Hi, I'm currently deciding whether or not to transfer over to Balmung with my main. My main used to be on Mateus, been there since September 13th 2013 until about three weeks ago which I transferred him over to Cactuar for a FC. Now, Mateus isn't a very populated server, which was also a pro but also a con. I had a lot of drama there with a FC and that's another reason I wished to transfer. I'm a big roleplayer, I even write my own stories, so that tiny little server wasn't really cutting it for both roleplayers and friends in general.
After I transferred over to Cactuar things seemed to have gotten a bit more brighter in my FF life, until that FC I joined kind of just died out because most all characters there were alts and low levels while I'm just a level 60 WHM/SCH/AST just sitting there waiting to do stuff or to help them level. I quit that FC to make my own, which honestly was just a random weird idea I had -- most usually never worked, so this one wasn't any different. Hence my want to transfer again; but to a more roleplay-based server.
I haven't roleplayed in several months now because my roleplay partners all left. But, since Balmung is so populated and roleplayed filled my only question here is "Will the transfer be worth it?" and maybe just some more insight on how that server's community and play-style is like.
I've been really reluctant to make any characters on high populated servers because of the jerks there - now, I know with every terrible person there's a even better, nicer one; but my fear still stands because I do not wish to transfer, drama happens then be outed like I was on my first server. With my anxiety it's kind of hard to just go with it and hope for the best.
After I transferred over to Cactuar things seemed to have gotten a bit more brighter in my FF life, until that FC I joined kind of just died out because most all characters there were alts and low levels while I'm just a level 60 WHM/SCH/AST just sitting there waiting to do stuff or to help them level. I quit that FC to make my own, which honestly was just a random weird idea I had -- most usually never worked, so this one wasn't any different. Hence my want to transfer again; but to a more roleplay-based server.
I haven't roleplayed in several months now because my roleplay partners all left. But, since Balmung is so populated and roleplayed filled my only question here is "Will the transfer be worth it?" and maybe just some more insight on how that server's community and play-style is like.
I've been really reluctant to make any characters on high populated servers because of the jerks there - now, I know with every terrible person there's a even better, nicer one; but my fear still stands because I do not wish to transfer, drama happens then be outed like I was on my first server. With my anxiety it's kind of hard to just go with it and hope for the best.
