Just like in RL, when a stranger sits next to you at a bar, it's up to the female to make the first move! 
  Shoots, most places I go to, if someone sat next to me they're just someone sitting next to me.
In RP, if someone sits down or comes in and doesn't emote a single thing, they're basically not there. They don't have to "say" anything but you should at least type that you're there and sitting silently. Unlike RL in RP we can't see you doing anything else.
This guy just sounds like an attention whore type that expects you to know "who I am" and engage for some reason. The RP tag is a good thing, but it's not a "YOU MUST ENGAGE MEH!" sign.
Brush it off I say.
  Shoots, most places I go to, if someone sat next to me they're just someone sitting next to me.In RP, if someone sits down or comes in and doesn't emote a single thing, they're basically not there. They don't have to "say" anything but you should at least type that you're there and sitting silently. Unlike RL in RP we can't see you doing anything else.
This guy just sounds like an attention whore type that expects you to know "who I am" and engage for some reason. The RP tag is a good thing, but it's not a "YOU MUST ENGAGE MEH!" sign.
Brush it off I say.
