I'd recommend fully reading Greenley's post above. It captures my views on the matter perfectly. (And sometimes, we need a not-rep visual confirmation of those views.)
And this is as a Balmung player. I'm in a couple of the Mateus discords. I have an alt (sadly not being used) on the server so I can walk around myself. I've seen the influx of new people, which is of course, going to stir things up both good and bad.
But at the end of it, I want to continue to support the efforts on Mateus. Just -like- Balmung, there are going to be a few sticks in the mud. Find a server that doesn't have any with a population larger than 0.
I know that often, we only post about the bad news because if everything's good, there's no reason to complain. But it sets up a difficult hurdle that was never there to begin with. A person having RP issues with socializing will likely have them on any server. The name doesn't matter.
And this is as a Balmung player. I'm in a couple of the Mateus discords. I have an alt (sadly not being used) on the server so I can walk around myself. I've seen the influx of new people, which is of course, going to stir things up both good and bad.
But at the end of it, I want to continue to support the efforts on Mateus. Just -like- Balmung, there are going to be a few sticks in the mud. Find a server that doesn't have any with a population larger than 0.
I know that often, we only post about the bad news because if everything's good, there's no reason to complain. But it sets up a difficult hurdle that was never there to begin with. A person having RP issues with socializing will likely have them on any server. The name doesn't matter.
