The original "go-to" server for RP on FFXIV was Balmung, but it's currently on lock-down because it's stuffed to capacity.
However, there are several other servers that have their own RP communities! Most notably are Mateus and Omega (the latter being an EU server, so if you're EU, that's probably going to be your go-to!), but there are several other communities on servers like Jenova and Faerie! Checking the Free Company and Linkshell Halls in the Resources section of the forums should give you a good starting point, but the RPC isn't the be-all, end-all for FFXIV RP, so there could be plenty of other RP groups that just have not registered and/or advertised their presence here.
However, there are several other servers that have their own RP communities! Most notably are Mateus and Omega (the latter being an EU server, so if you're EU, that's probably going to be your go-to!), but there are several other communities on servers like Jenova and Faerie! Checking the Free Company and Linkshell Halls in the Resources section of the forums should give you a good starting point, but the RPC isn't the be-all, end-all for FFXIV RP, so there could be plenty of other RP groups that just have not registered and/or advertised their presence here.
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