
I can't speak for everyone, but one of the wider quoted reasons is trust. A lot of people don't want to risk jumping into writing something romantic with strangers, or others that they're not confident will maintain an IC =/= bond.Â
Likewise, some get the comfort and/or rush from writing being in the relationship rather than getting to it.Â
It's definitely a preference thing and I don't think it's bad either way (not meaning that anybody in here was saying such!).
Likewise, some get the comfort and/or rush from writing being in the relationship rather than getting to it.Â
It's definitely a preference thing and I don't think it's bad either way (not meaning that anybody in here was saying such!).