A lot of these are just bad RP. One I'll add is including what your character feels/does/says in their emotes. This is closely related to not giving you a choice on what you do/say or how you can react, which I think someone already mentioned.
A straight up red flag (one I've had to deal with myself) is someone telling you you look good only when it suits their preferences and giving you shit until you change back if you change to something they don't like.
Another is being rude, critical, or abusive in RP and trying to cover it with "Oh, it's just my character's personality".
A straight up red flag (one I've had to deal with myself) is someone telling you you look good only when it suits their preferences and giving you shit until you change back if you change to something they don't like.
Another is being rude, critical, or abusive in RP and trying to cover it with "Oh, it's just my character's personality".
