(11-12-2017, 07:49 PM)Lydia Lightfoot Wrote: I'm not sure what to say regarding RP on Ultros - I've honestly never heard of it having any sort of RP community, though I imagine just about every server probably has a small handful of players on it who like to RP.ÂÂ Thank you so much for the response, Lydia! Albeit small, there is definitely an RP community over on Ultros! :DÂ
I play on Balmung, and if you have a character there still, you're welcome to check out my social group, The Reliquarian's Guild, and come poke your nose into some of our activities and general RP. I'm not sure what experiences you had on Balmung previously which caused you to, as you say, "halt your efforts", but I can say with certainty that the community is definitely large enough that it's very possible to have widely varying experiences just depending on which chunk of that community one happens to become involved with... and, with a community so large, it's likely that if one chunk didn't work out, another one might, and the two chunks may very well never end up overlapping.
I can definitely agree that not everyone I've encountered on Balmung has done me wrong, and in the process of healing, I have tried to put myself back out there. Sadly, the circle of people in question identify as the "divas" of the community, so I practically see them everywhere I turn, no matter what I do. xDÂ
However, I do like your statement about thinking of groups as "chunks". After going through the ordeals I did and before taking a break from Balmung in general, I was able to find an FC of kind people who listened to my story and took me in. It gives me hope that maybe one day, I can heal properly and maybe even RP on Balmung again. While "halting efforts" is probably seen as a harsh term, it's a term that has the ability to change. :)Â Thank you for your words!
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