Balmung is full of rp, but closed. Mateus is very similar to Balmung, but it's rp community has only ramped up since the release of the Stormblood expansion (due to Balmung's sudden complete closure), so you'll find not only a good number of rpers but also a lot of players new to the game.
I believe Mateus uses Discord more than Tumblr for event promotions. Here is a calendar blog that includes a link to the Discord.
One thing I want to stress however... you get out as much RP as you put in. If you wait for it to come to you, you may be waiting a while. Be proactive. Find RP FCs and LSs. Go to events; help run events. Be willing to walk up to others that you see with the RP tag in places and start a conversation.
Also, everyone's experience is going to be different. Some folks will swear up and down they can't find RP anywhere; others (including myself) wonder why there aren't enough hours in the day to squeeze everything in.
You'll really need to try it for yourself to know.
I believe Mateus uses Discord more than Tumblr for event promotions. Here is a calendar blog that includes a link to the Discord.
One thing I want to stress however... you get out as much RP as you put in. If you wait for it to come to you, you may be waiting a while. Be proactive. Find RP FCs and LSs. Go to events; help run events. Be willing to walk up to others that you see with the RP tag in places and start a conversation.
Also, everyone's experience is going to be different. Some folks will swear up and down they can't find RP anywhere; others (including myself) wonder why there aren't enough hours in the day to squeeze everything in.
You'll really need to try it for yourself to know.