
*would kidnap for our LS/FC if you were going to Gilgamesh... but since you're not...*
Well then, I'll just have to meet you on Balmung with my Duskwright. Which... yeah... isn't likely to be a chatterbox herself.
BUT... you didn't mention what race you're pondering, so I think that will be the first thing you need to decide, then integrate yourself into that community.
I know on Balmung, there is a very active DW group (see Eva's Duskwright discussion thread) that is planning on making a DW only LS that is... I think going to be both IC and OOC...
There is also a very active and vocal Miqo'te group forming- complete with family lines and connections (Clover and Khaze'to Zhwan are working on that. Mainly focused on Seekers, but with Keeper offshoots). I think they will have a global Miqo'te LS too.
Now... regarding the Lala, Roe and Hyur crew...
I can't say, as I've been focused on the two races I'll be playing- but I bet there are great groups for those too.
Check out the Mentor thread and see if you can join up with a Mentor that might help you integrate. That's what I'm doing... since I'm kinda a 'standoffish' type too, thanks to me being shy/introverted IRL and that is reflected well IG *coughs*. I have the entire "don't want to bother you/interrupt/be rude and butt in" complex coupled with the "well if they want to include me, they will. I'll just stand here and... listen/watch...
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So, I totally understand and empathize with you and hope the suggestions help!
G'luck with your search- I haven't found a FC on Balmung yet either... haha
Well then, I'll just have to meet you on Balmung with my Duskwright. Which... yeah... isn't likely to be a chatterbox herself.

I know on Balmung, there is a very active DW group (see Eva's Duskwright discussion thread) that is planning on making a DW only LS that is... I think going to be both IC and OOC...
There is also a very active and vocal Miqo'te group forming- complete with family lines and connections (Clover and Khaze'to Zhwan are working on that. Mainly focused on Seekers, but with Keeper offshoots). I think they will have a global Miqo'te LS too.
Now... regarding the Lala, Roe and Hyur crew...
I can't say, as I've been focused on the two races I'll be playing- but I bet there are great groups for those too.
Check out the Mentor thread and see if you can join up with a Mentor that might help you integrate. That's what I'm doing... since I'm kinda a 'standoffish' type too, thanks to me being shy/introverted IRL and that is reflected well IG *coughs*. I have the entire "don't want to bother you/interrupt/be rude and butt in" complex coupled with the "well if they want to include me, they will. I'll just stand here and... listen/watch...

So, I totally understand and empathize with you and hope the suggestions help!
G'luck with your search- I haven't found a FC on Balmung yet either... haha