(07-27-2013, 10:42 AM)Asyria Wrote: It's not like anyone was aware that the apology post was worded by two people, so reacting agressively to what some said about who should be apologizing is a bit unfair and kinda does mess up the whole apology thing.Yes, this is exactly my sentiment.
Just keep things in perspective, folks.
@Rhynka, I'm not here to provoke anything, no. I was only trying to be helpful by offering a bit of perspective.
First, I was explaining what it was people viewed as improper about the posts your husband is apologizing for, since he wasn't certain about that.
Second, I was presenting the idea that in addition to unduly insulting people on the forum and lashing out in a really unnecessary and unfriendly manner might make you look bad to people who are just reading the thread you're posting in, hurting your reputation.
I offered that I wouldn't judge you guys based on that perception, since it had all seemed like a misunderstanding, but I don't think you're helping matters by getting defensive again. We're all being friendly here, or so I thought.
Let's just chill out about everything. No one's trying to ostracize anyone. Stuff happens.
