(08-08-2013, 12:47 PM)Ellion Wrote:(08-08-2013, 12:15 PM)Xerek Wrote:(08-08-2013, 11:01 AM)ArmachiA Wrote:(08-08-2013, 08:54 AM)Xerek Wrote: First, I approve of the change.
Second, please stop this. Â Balmung players, take a look at yourself. Â Some (not all) of you are getting quite nasty and venomous...then wonder why the Gilgamesh players don't want to play with you? Â There are two servers, one legacy, one non. Â No matter how justified either side feels, being nasty or bitter doesn't help. Â I know players on Balmung and Gilgamesh that are embarrased and disgusted by the infighting.
This isn't helping the RPC. Â And both sides are responsible. Â For our sake, Balmung and Gilgamesh players alike...can we please stop this?
I generally don't take sides but the Gilgamesh dude came in pretty aggressive, where's his chastising man?
Reread my thread. I specifically said both sides are responsible.
I reread it, she's speaking specifically about the bias singling out Balmung players (some of them), telling them to "take a look at themselves." She's asking why there was no repercussion to the Gilgamesh side (implying straight up you're bias).
*sigh*
I have noted many Balmung players asking why people are going to Gilgamesh instead of Balmung with them. I pointed out one reason. You're not going to have a lot of success by being venomous. You're not presenting yourself in a manner that would attract players and are, in fact, contributing to the very problem you're lamenting.
I am not taking sides. I am not admonishing anyone. I am trying to get people from both servers to realize that this is doing nothing but causing massive amounts of damage. I am a father, and my tone (which isn't conveyed over the net sadly) was similar. "Son, I know you're upset Billy won't play with you, but look at how you're behaving. Do you think this will make him more likely to play with you?"
Both sides, drop the anger and knee jerk reactions. Calm yourself and clear your mind before responding. Tensions are high and it's getting the best of us.
