I think it would be best stated like this:
"You want to play FFXIV? I advise you to go to a server. They're all pretty good. Here are two that are particularly good. Which one would you like better? Try them out."
The Drama Llama needs to be put back in its cage. Put the anger back under the rock it came from, and have a group hug. We really are all here for the same purpose. It's about time we start acting like it instead of arguing over silly things. Bad attitudes, and really, attitudes at all, aren't going to change anyone's perception. Just be supportive and welcoming, and things will sort themselves out in the end.
"You want to play FFXIV? I advise you to go to a server. They're all pretty good. Here are two that are particularly good. Which one would you like better? Try them out."
The Drama Llama needs to be put back in its cage. Put the anger back under the rock it came from, and have a group hug. We really are all here for the same purpose. It's about time we start acting like it instead of arguing over silly things. Bad attitudes, and really, attitudes at all, aren't going to change anyone's perception. Just be supportive and welcoming, and things will sort themselves out in the end.