While it is unfortunate that there are horrible things that happen IRL, I think it is a good thing to keep the IC/OOC separate to prevent bleed-over. I've had a very violent situation happen within my own life actually. However I do not think I should tell someone how to roleplay their character, especially if its not breaking foundation-lore.
If someone wants a dark story then that is fine. I think when it comes down to it, I do not think the OP from what I have read is going to run around giving a whole back-story to everyone they come across. This being said I don't really think that the OP is responsible to cater to other people. Not to say that this is the case here with Ryuu's comment, but rather general comment on my behalf. This can be said with most things, for example; gender and love choices.Â
I think overall it is wise to keep an open mind and a mature goal with dark storylines for many reasons. A lot of those reasons have been touched on here, cliches, personal concerns, etc.
If someone wants a dark story then that is fine. I think when it comes down to it, I do not think the OP from what I have read is going to run around giving a whole back-story to everyone they come across. This being said I don't really think that the OP is responsible to cater to other people. Not to say that this is the case here with Ryuu's comment, but rather general comment on my behalf. This can be said with most things, for example; gender and love choices.Â
I think overall it is wise to keep an open mind and a mature goal with dark storylines for many reasons. A lot of those reasons have been touched on here, cliches, personal concerns, etc.