So I am not new to MMO's to say the least, nor is this really my first time on a RP server in a game. But from my experience with the community of this game as a whole and from my experiences with the RP'ers as far as the Balmung server goes it has been almost nothing but drama, one thing after another. To admit I have never bothered being in or running a RP based guild. So this is my first experience with that, I am not new to guild leading though. So I know drama happens.Â
But man... this mess I got a hold of was just ... wow. Is it normal to find people who are irrational and go from being good friends with you to just hating you with a sudden flip of a coin? I've been told by others I did nothing wrong but seeing as my tally of people I seem to be hated by is up to three I am starting to question that. My husband even informed me if we switch games at some point that he ill not be playing on a RP server due to the drama that we have dealt with here already. So his first time experience on a RP server is very poor to say the least.
So I just wanted to ask the community here... is it common to find people who are so judgmental and one sided that if you tell them something and they disagree with you that they just turn to hate you? My husband seems to think it is a RP'er thing, I keep trying to tell him I don't think it is that. >__<; (I hope this was the right forum)
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updated:
Here is another question then...
If someone bashed, harassed or went as far as personal attacks on you should you worry about helping them get a out for their character as far as a FC or some other story is concerned?
Pretty much just want to see what people will say to that, personally I said no I refused to RP with someone who wanted to personally attack me ooc. A RP is suppose to be something you enjoy, if I had to force myself to RP with someone who wanted to bash me and burn the bridges before they left I doubt (no I'm pretty sure) I would not have fun doing that RP.
(Granted this issue is resolved more or less as well, I just wanted to see if I could get feedback on it, like personal thoughts on if OOC bashing had a effect on if I should or should not help someone IC'ly. There were a number of other ways the character could have taken a out of the story he was in without the route that was taken...)
But man... this mess I got a hold of was just ... wow. Is it normal to find people who are irrational and go from being good friends with you to just hating you with a sudden flip of a coin? I've been told by others I did nothing wrong but seeing as my tally of people I seem to be hated by is up to three I am starting to question that. My husband even informed me if we switch games at some point that he ill not be playing on a RP server due to the drama that we have dealt with here already. So his first time experience on a RP server is very poor to say the least.
So I just wanted to ask the community here... is it common to find people who are so judgmental and one sided that if you tell them something and they disagree with you that they just turn to hate you? My husband seems to think it is a RP'er thing, I keep trying to tell him I don't think it is that. >__<; (I hope this was the right forum)
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updated:
Here is another question then...
If someone bashed, harassed or went as far as personal attacks on you should you worry about helping them get a out for their character as far as a FC or some other story is concerned?
Pretty much just want to see what people will say to that, personally I said no I refused to RP with someone who wanted to personally attack me ooc. A RP is suppose to be something you enjoy, if I had to force myself to RP with someone who wanted to bash me and burn the bridges before they left I doubt (no I'm pretty sure) I would not have fun doing that RP.
(Granted this issue is resolved more or less as well, I just wanted to see if I could get feedback on it, like personal thoughts on if OOC bashing had a effect on if I should or should not help someone IC'ly. There were a number of other ways the character could have taken a out of the story he was in without the route that was taken...)
