Pretty much after dealing with and trying to talk to each of the three people it has come down to haters going to hate. There is nothing more I can do in my power to settle things back to where the group of us are friends as they seemed to have already made their minds up.Â
As a leader I do listen to everyone's side of things and I keep a close tab on the skype chat my group is in. As well as the FC and LS chats. I ask people to come to me or a officer or the other leader if something, anything bothers them. This issue I had could have been avoided ages ago and maybe solved in another way altogether if they had followed that one simple request...
Pretty much now from the members I still have I get told that I can't please everyone no matter how hard I try. It is true and I know it is but it still stung a bit that this was just so suddenly and seemed to be something that could have been taken care of easily if someone had spoken up sooner instead of letting it bottle up and explode.Â
As far as cutting yourself off from people, that was one of the members who left issue. They seemed upset at the thought that our FC might get new members... Riddle me that on why someone would be upset to make new friends but they flat out told me that they would not get along with anyone new due to past experiences. O-o;
As a leader I do listen to everyone's side of things and I keep a close tab on the skype chat my group is in. As well as the FC and LS chats. I ask people to come to me or a officer or the other leader if something, anything bothers them. This issue I had could have been avoided ages ago and maybe solved in another way altogether if they had followed that one simple request...
Pretty much now from the members I still have I get told that I can't please everyone no matter how hard I try. It is true and I know it is but it still stung a bit that this was just so suddenly and seemed to be something that could have been taken care of easily if someone had spoken up sooner instead of letting it bottle up and explode.Â
As far as cutting yourself off from people, that was one of the members who left issue. They seemed upset at the thought that our FC might get new members... Riddle me that on why someone would be upset to make new friends but they flat out told me that they would not get along with anyone new due to past experiences. O-o;
