(11-15-2013, 12:43 PM)Olofantur Wrote: I've seen the same thing happen,
I'll sit at the bar and sip my drink while i'm talking OOcly in a Linkshell, just to show that I can be talked to and help add to the "living" element of the setting, but sometimes I get this horrible feeling that others are hoping to have people burst in and engage them. Or perhaps worse (for me) is when some one sits next to me just moments before I stand up because i've been asked to help else where.
I know you were standing around for a while and I know it likely took a while to think of a probable reason to engage me, and whipping small talk out of thin air isn't easy for everyone I'M SORRY I WANT TO TALK TO YOU TOO I just had the dungeon queue for AK pop and I really want those Myth tomes /weep
Yes!! This precisely ;;; I hate that niggling feeling of doubt...
Characters: Andre Winter (Hy'ur) / K'nahli Yohko (Miqo'te)