It can be a pretty tricky situation but generally speaking the canon lore is by far more important and relevant than what we as role-players seek to bring to the table. The lack of rarity for male miqo'te is largely due to game mechanics. It wouldn't make for a popular MMO if people were locked out of a playable race due to an abundance.
My advice would be to locate role-players who are willing to see the game world as it is intended to be seen and create meaningful, character driven role-play alongside them. Never let people force you to adhere to 'server lore' or make you feel like you have to cave into their requests to ignore the established canon in order to justify their chosen character concept.
My advice would be to locate role-players who are willing to see the game world as it is intended to be seen and create meaningful, character driven role-play alongside them. Never let people force you to adhere to 'server lore' or make you feel like you have to cave into their requests to ignore the established canon in order to justify their chosen character concept.
