Hello,
I have seem to have gotten myself into a sensitive dance with someone I rp with on FFXIV. Â Just to get it out there Im not in love with this person so its not that kind of situation. The only personal information he knows about me is that I live somewhere in Ohio and Im married.
Well lets get to the issue. My character started a relationship with this fellow a while back when he joined the FC I am in. And for a few weeks it was all sorts of fun and good times. But his temperament IC and OCC has gotten a bit on the depressing side. I figured it was because of his age and he was away at college. But the mood for the rp had gotten pretty depressing, and fights would break out IC and OCC over little things. ( Examples.
If I happened to miss an emote or tell or a line..his IC response was that I was ignoring him.
Or If I wanted to run a CT or a dungeon, he would get upset OOC that I didn't want to rp with him.
He gott OOC mad with me when I used my own gill to purchase earrings of the auction board.
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Now its gotten to the place where he wants me to rp all the time, and gets upset if I want to level or run CT's or rp with others. Its gotten to a point when I was tired and wanted to goto bed, and didn't finish the rp "session" he wanted to end his character and cancel his account.
In all fairness its fun when he's in a happy non possessive mood. But this constant up and down is really starting to ruin my attraction to this game.Â
Has anyone else had similar experiences? Or any advice I can do to keep things on a lighter mood?
I have seem to have gotten myself into a sensitive dance with someone I rp with on FFXIV. Â Just to get it out there Im not in love with this person so its not that kind of situation. The only personal information he knows about me is that I live somewhere in Ohio and Im married.
Well lets get to the issue. My character started a relationship with this fellow a while back when he joined the FC I am in. And for a few weeks it was all sorts of fun and good times. But his temperament IC and OCC has gotten a bit on the depressing side. I figured it was because of his age and he was away at college. But the mood for the rp had gotten pretty depressing, and fights would break out IC and OCC over little things. ( Examples.
If I happened to miss an emote or tell or a line..his IC response was that I was ignoring him.
Or If I wanted to run a CT or a dungeon, he would get upset OOC that I didn't want to rp with him.
He gott OOC mad with me when I used my own gill to purchase earrings of the auction board.
 )Â
Now its gotten to the place where he wants me to rp all the time, and gets upset if I want to level or run CT's or rp with others. Its gotten to a point when I was tired and wanted to goto bed, and didn't finish the rp "session" he wanted to end his character and cancel his account.
In all fairness its fun when he's in a happy non possessive mood. But this constant up and down is really starting to ruin my attraction to this game.Â
Has anyone else had similar experiences? Or any advice I can do to keep things on a lighter mood?
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