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RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) |
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02-08-2014, 01:34 PM
Well, I'll start out by saying that usually situations like this do not end well.
It's clear you're going through that "internet obsessive crush" thing with this guy. What you can try to do first is establish clear boundaries. You need to tell this guy in no uncertain terms how you feel about his attempted monopolizing of your time, and then you need to lay down the law. Let him know that you expect to be able to have time for X, Y, and Z, and if he's not willing to give that to you, then perhaps you two need to reconsider your current IC and OOC arrangements.

Ask him straight up why he wants to do nothing but RP with you. If his answers seem wishy-washy, push.

If, after discussion, he still refuses to give you some space, then you have to do the difficult thing and just cut him off. This might be inconvenient IC due to your rp relationship, but you'll need to work around it. Enabling the guy further isn't going to help him or you.

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Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Mimiko - 02-08-2014, 12:55 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Aldotsk - 02-08-2014, 01:32 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Naunet - 02-08-2014, 01:34 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Cato - 02-08-2014, 01:36 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Sophia_Grave - 02-08-2014, 02:02 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Faye - 02-08-2014, 02:05 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by McBeefâ„¢ - 02-08-2014, 02:37 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Mimiko - 02-08-2014, 03:14 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by LiadansWhisper - 02-08-2014, 03:26 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Nebbs - 02-08-2014, 04:13 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Roen - 02-08-2014, 04:13 PM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by ArmachiA - 02-09-2014, 05:45 AM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by Mimiko - 02-11-2014, 10:44 AM
RE: Need advice on sensitive situation. (IC and OOC) - by allgivenover - 02-11-2014, 11:06 AM

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