
In all honesty, these are all bad signs. I'd take one of two routes. The first, if you aren't too fond of him and the RP, would be to break off the relationship IC and keep your distance OOC. If he decides to stop RPing, to stop playing, or whatever, that's on him and you can't blame yourself. The second, if you want to continue the RP and try to salvage your friendship, would just be to sit him down and have a talk with him. Explain that OOC and IC are separate and exclusive, that this is just an RP and it's not your top priority in life, and ask him to take a step back. Of course, if he doesn't change, you're back to option one.