
I agree with what's been said already. Plenty of good advice. It is always a bad sign when IC blends into the OOC.
I understand the want to avoid drama, but the behaviors you described indicates a lot of obsessive and passive aggressive behavior. Red flags! I would also advise having an honest discussion with the person, and if that does not resolve/salvage things, break off the relationship IC and OOC. And make the break absolutely clear to him.
It will not be an easy thing to do, but once done, you can move on and have fun again.
I understand the want to avoid drama, but the behaviors you described indicates a lot of obsessive and passive aggressive behavior. Red flags! I would also advise having an honest discussion with the person, and if that does not resolve/salvage things, break off the relationship IC and OOC. And make the break absolutely clear to him.
It will not be an easy thing to do, but once done, you can move on and have fun again.