(03-11-2014, 02:55 PM)Steel Wolf Wrote: Have you spoken to your friends to let them know how you feel? If as many of your IRL friends occupy this FC as you say, and if your relationship with them is tight, you should be able to approach them with your feelings and see if you can't all hash it out.
I've mentioned it a few off times with my closest friends that I run with more often. The ones I see almost every Friday ish before they have to do coil with the static. it's just something that wouldn't really happen if I wanted to do Ex primals or end-game things with them because they'll always have someone better geared than I am, etc.
But I don't enjoy Pugging new things with people I don't know (it adds waaay too much anxiety for me) and the last times I've put up party finder groups for Garuda Ex it never even formed a group.
My social anxieties are really coming into it #_#;
I know I should be trying to PUG things more but it feels like since they have much better options (people on their 7th relics, 3rd or 4th job geared, etc) that I should find my own place. A little less than content as I yearn for more..?
