You don't gotta talk to me about social anxieties--you know how I be, Kage.
The thing is, though, you shouldn't try to get too caught up in the endgame arms race, especially the attitudes that most of those PUGs seem to foster. You're perhaps getting pressure laid on to you by complete strangers and you're feeling like you need to hurry to catch up.
You don't. Not really.
I think the LS contacts advice is sound here--form your own static, or try to find some others who will fold you into theirs. I have to think that there's places and folks in this very forum who will take someone of you iLVL BLM'ness into their rotations, especially if they're forming multiple statics.
The best advice I can provide you, personally, is don't feel pressure. You're supposed to play this game for fun's sake, not to be under a falling Damocles of raider's pressure.
The thing is, though, you shouldn't try to get too caught up in the endgame arms race, especially the attitudes that most of those PUGs seem to foster. You're perhaps getting pressure laid on to you by complete strangers and you're feeling like you need to hurry to catch up.
You don't. Not really.
I think the LS contacts advice is sound here--form your own static, or try to find some others who will fold you into theirs. I have to think that there's places and folks in this very forum who will take someone of you iLVL BLM'ness into their rotations, especially if they're forming multiple statics.
The best advice I can provide you, personally, is don't feel pressure. You're supposed to play this game for fun's sake, not to be under a falling Damocles of raider's pressure.
