(03-11-2014, 04:22 PM)Steel Wolf Wrote: The thing is, though, you shouldn't try to get too caught up in the endgame arms race, especially the attitudes that most of those PUGs seem to foster. You're perhaps getting pressure laid on to you by complete strangers and you're feeling like you need to hurry to catch up.^Â
You don't. Not really.
I think the LS contacts advice is sound here--form your own static, or try to find some others who will fold you into theirs. I have to think that there's places and folks in this very forum who will take someone of you iLVL BLM'ness into their rotations, especially if they're forming multiple statics.
The best advice I can provide you, personally, is don't feel pressure. You're supposed to play this game for fun's sake, not to be under a falling Damocles of raider's pressure.
This!
At least that's how I feel and enjoy the game. But Kage, you are not me, and perhaps the endgame progression is a large part of your enjoyment. It sounds like you are looking for a static coil group and is perhaps looking for an FC that would provide that. So if you leave your current FC, then definitely look for an FC that may have space for you, else I think you may feel all this was for naught.
As for RP... you don't have to look to your FC to provide RP! You are already in one LS that has plenty of RPers! My first FC, while it was RP oriented which is what drew me there, was very small and intimate, and I was often left to my own devices to seek out my own RP. And I met plenty of folks that way! My current FC loves to RP so I am in a happy place, but even in between FCs, RP was never in question. You just gotta go look for it. Or create your own.
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