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RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC |
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03-12-2014, 01:00 PM
(This post was last modified: 03-12-2014, 01:59 PM by Kage.)
(03-12-2014, 12:33 PM)Evie Wrote: Talk with your friends in your FC and with your friends out of your FC. A certain vain cat that goes by the name of Salem has always given me sound advice in the past Smile. You can tell him Evie called him vain by the way, I swear he changes his character's appearance weekly Tongue.
He's only been sending me /tells lately ;A; Where is my favorite miqo'te shoulder when a Lalafell needs it?! Not on the rail in Quicksand that's for sure ;o;



I feel like at some point the growth of the FC stalled and while we all help each other (CT runs? Relic Runs? Oh we have X mats we can craft for gear for X person), those outside of the core group doesn't really do anything like Ex primals or Coil together. I feel like most of the people who do a lot of the pugging like I do who stick around do it cause, like me, they really enjoy most of their company.

I just also feel extremely selfish because almost all of the members, especially my irl friends, have helped me a lot (in terms of dungeon runs, relic runs, mats, getting experience, etc) but outside of the higher content I feel like I'm left out because I'm not high i80s or i90. At the same time I understand that I'm not geared as high as they'd like or that I don't have the experience that they may like, but I feel that by pugging it I'm better off finding a steady group for me to get that experience.

I'm not good with words and talking about things really make me scared to do it with friends ;A; I've had lots of dramallama incidents where one or a couple of us did the misunderstandings-the-anime thing... ._.;

(03-12-2014, 12:26 PM)Erik Mynhier Wrote: That said, I'm looking to hire spies Kage.
Why are you hiring spies? *suspicious!*

(03-12-2014, 12:52 PM)Brynn Wrote: It sounds like you are looking for a static coil group and is perhaps looking for an FC that would provide that. So if you leave your current FC, then definitely look for an FC that may have space for you, else I think you may feel all this was for naught.

As for RP... you don't have to look to your FC to provide RP! You are already in one LS that has plenty of RPers! My first FC, while it was RP oriented which is what drew me there, was very small and intimate, and I was often left to my own devices to seek out my own RP. And I met plenty of folks that way! My current FC loves to RP so I am in a happy place, but even in between FCs, RP was never in question. You just gotta go look for it. Or create your own.

You know I would help! Smile
Yes. I really want to progress through end-game. That's something I myself want but the attitude that I feel in the core group is that I have to PUG it to get to the level of being considered to go through it. So while I don't mind pugging it once in awhile if I couldn't meet the times... I don't want to live end-game like that. I want to be in a stable consistent environment where I know my place in that? I've found nice PF groups for T1-2 that I do now but I'd like to actually have a sorts of relationship with the people I do this part of the game with. If that makes sense.

And part of wanting to have an RP FC is to help my lack of creativity and imagination. I always find it easier to be involved in peoples' plots than to... plot something? XD; (As imaginative as a rock I am).
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Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-11-2014, 02:33 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Melodia - 03-11-2014, 02:42 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by cuideag - 03-11-2014, 02:43 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Melodia - 03-11-2014, 02:46 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-11-2014, 02:49 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Steel Wolf - 03-11-2014, 02:55 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-11-2014, 04:04 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Steel Wolf - 03-11-2014, 04:22 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Roen - 03-12-2014, 12:52 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Magellan - 03-11-2014, 04:23 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-11-2014, 04:32 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Candor - 03-11-2014, 04:38 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-11-2014, 04:40 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Magellan - 03-11-2014, 04:50 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-11-2014, 05:00 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by synaesthetic - 03-12-2014, 11:59 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Erik Mynhier - 03-12-2014, 12:26 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-12-2014, 12:33 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-12-2014, 01:00 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by synaesthetic - 03-12-2014, 02:41 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Steel Wolf - 03-12-2014, 02:52 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-12-2014, 03:12 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Steel Wolf - 03-12-2014, 03:20 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-12-2014, 04:10 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Steel Wolf - 03-12-2014, 04:33 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-12-2014, 04:36 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-12-2014, 05:01 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-12-2014, 05:30 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Ildur - 03-12-2014, 07:49 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by synaesthetic - 03-12-2014, 11:12 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by ArmachiA - 03-13-2014, 01:12 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-13-2014, 02:31 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by ArmachiA - 03-13-2014, 09:36 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-13-2014, 08:04 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-13-2014, 09:46 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-13-2014, 09:59 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Roen - 03-13-2014, 11:33 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-13-2014, 11:40 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Roen - 03-13-2014, 10:33 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-13-2014, 10:49 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Illira - 03-13-2014, 11:45 AM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-13-2014, 02:51 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Evie - 03-13-2014, 02:59 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by ArmachiA - 03-13-2014, 03:34 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by McBeefâ„¢ - 03-13-2014, 03:37 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Kage - 03-13-2014, 03:50 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by Roen - 03-13-2014, 04:16 PM
RE: Feeling like I'm not comfortable w/ my place in current FC - by ArmachiA - 03-13-2014, 05:43 PM

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