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RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Aaron - 05-19-2015
I'm sorry I'm so goddamn awesome. Lol
On a serious note, sorry if I've ever in game or here
- Interrupted your rp because I was just running around spamming mudra's or Circlet of Scorn, or OOC chatting with a friend in a populated place. Sometimes I get bored.Â
- Said something that came off negative, despite me being extremely nice I'm a /very/ blunt and straight up person and if I don't care for a opinion or I feel something is stupid, I flat out say it and won't care. This is not intentionally made to try and what was the word, trigger? Trigger people. Yeah that's not my intention. I just grew up in an environment where being blunt about something could literally save you from a nasty accident that killed a couple of your friends.
- Annoyed people. In my early rp days I admit I was /quite/ annoying. This is because I generally used to play mmo just to troll the fuck outta people lol. However I'm glad I stopped that when I joined XIV.
Anything else. . . idk. . . sorry I forgot to slap you in the game for some reason . . I can't say hi to everyone >_<
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Knight Kat - 05-19-2015
Since leading an FC, I've grown more cold and calculating in some ways. Being a leader of an FC sometimes requires some moderation and hard choices. I have begun to recognize threats and stop them before they start.
It also takes up a lot of my time, so friends outside my FC don't get as much attention as I would like to give them.
I am sincerely sorry on all accounts mentioned above.
I love my FC even if I don't always love being leader of it.
To those outside my FC, I've not forgotten you.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Steel Wolf - 05-19-2015
I've been rather aloof of recent in-game. Buggering off without announcement, not really investing in the recent stuff with my FC...
...and to be completely frank I'm not sure why. I apologize to..like...everyone. FC, friends, people I'm meetin here.
I'm sorry. :c I'll try harder.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Aris - 05-19-2015
I'm sorry I'm slow to reply, or sometimes don't at all.
Please know it's nothing personal or something you've done. Talking to people, in person and online, is very challenging for me. I avoid it because of the anxiety and panic I know I will experience. Sometimes I can overcome it and go for it, but then later the anxiety wins again and I retreat. Which then isn't fair on someone who has spoke to me. This is no excuse, but I hope it shows that it isn't your fault.
I'm going to try harder from now on to make sure I reply, if someone does get in contact. It's really kind of you to do so and always makes me feel warm and fuzzy, and you deserve the same respect in return.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Telluride - 05-19-2015
There are so many people I haven't spoken to lately, people I have wanted to RP with, catch up with, send a smile to, banter among...
I have been putting TONS of time into pve and catching up on RP promises, not to mention working to get my alt caught up for Heavensward, and finally grinding dungeons enough to get some chest pieces I have been craving...
But while I have been distracted, I have forgotten no one.
Another heartfelt bow goes to the Soliloquy team, since I have not been fighting harder to get a meet up going. Don't give up on me yet!
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Ha'uruh Nunh - 05-19-2015
I'm sorry I'm standoffish a lot of the time. It's not intentional. I don't people good.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Olofantur - 05-19-2015
I'm sorry i'm such an opinionated ass.
To anyone whose had to deal with me in Skype or otherwise.
my passion easily gets the better of me, both in game and in life.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Edgar - 05-19-2015
I'd like to apologize to the Friends of Momodi LS, where I was known for voicing my opinions a bit too often and generally inciting drama. However bad my situation at home was, it wasn't something that needed dragging into the LS for all to either gawk at or groan about.
I've since gotten better and my situation has improved, but man, I have regrets.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Lyriell - 05-21-2015
I'm sorry for generally being so slow to reply to my Skype requests and not showing myself ingame too often lately.
Work sure keeps me busy but hopefully once I finished moving to Thailand it will be less stressful.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Blue - 05-22-2015
I am sorry to all the people that my characters have ICly rejected. I do not think your characters are bad, or ugly, or undeserving of love, I just am really shy and very sensitive to sexual topics. To even see people emoting kissing or caresses cause some internal turmoil and panic in me that I prefer to avoid by simply stepping out of that aspect of Roleplaying. It is never something personal to your person or your OOC self. I have told you that I prefer to have romantic relationships form only after years of friendship and hardship, and this so far has always moved you away from me. I want you to know that it was not an excuse to force you to leave me alone, and I really do mean to eventually let my character fall in love. But much as how it works in real life, I feel the necessity of such bond to be formed with someone I have RPed for at least one year. I understand if your timings are different from my own, but please don't think I said it as an excuse to push you away, it is really the truth.
And to all those that have reacted negatively and aggressively to me OOC for rejecting them IC, know that I do not hold anything against you. I am aware that romance is important for a lot of people, and I feel bad for not being able to give others what they want (I actually am very paranoid on what people think of me and if I satisfy them), so I do expect these reactions when I fail at delivering what they want from my character. For these reasons, I am not angry to any of you for getting OOCly mad with me. I'll be sad to see you walk away, but that is really it.
Again, please, don't take my rejects as an insult to your character, or worse yet your person. I am just not fit for it, and for that reason I have built all my characters in a way to make it very difficult for them to hook up with others (widows, introverts, jerks, sociopaths, too young, too strict, etc.). It's not you, it's me.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Mayu - 05-29-2015
Not RP related, but would like to apologize to the raid I was in today around 4:30 pm EST for completely mucking it up and wiping everyone.
My problem is that my mother called during the raid, and like an idiot I answered it. However, she is older and we have a lot of elderly folks in our family and she doesn't normally call during this hour so I thought I'd better check to see what she wanted. When I exchanged pleasantries with her for a good 20 minutes I realized I was in over my head, my attention was being too divided and I explained to her I had to go. Of course, she didn't let me go. She had to ask me 90 thousand questions despite telling her over and over again I had to go...oh, older mothers.
ANYWAY, so sorry to my raid. I'm sure you replaced me swiftly though as thank GOODNESS I'm only DPS. I'm not normally an idiot but today I was.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Monster Lady - 06-04-2015
I'm sorry for being a bit naive at times, especially with a couple of my characters. It's not that I am trying to be all 'sweet and innocent' but I just usually make a RP character and let the role play form them. For some, they have seen the dangers in life but for others, they haven't.
I usually get nervous of people thinking that myself, OOCly, is oblivious to how things are around them and sometimes can judge a bit too quickly. I sort of withdrew myself from some things because of that fear. And I apologies for that too, for fear controlling me instead.
There are a lot of people I enjoy on FFXIV and it has been an amazing experience, I can't wait to learn more and enjoy it further while making new friends.Â
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Nebbs - 06-04-2015
(06-04-2015, 03:45 AM)Kyrsaria Wrote: I'm sorry for being a bit naive at times, especially with a couple of my characters. It's not that I am trying to be all 'sweet and innocent' but I just usually make a RP character and let the role play form them. For some, they have seen the dangers in life but for others, they haven't.
I usually get nervous of people thinking that myself, OOCly, is oblivious to how things are around them and sometimes can judge a bit too quickly. I sort of withdrew myself from some things because of that fear. And I apologies for that too, for fear controlling me instead.
There are a lot of people I enjoy on FFXIV and it has been an amazing experience, I can't wait to learn more and enjoy it further while making new friends.Â
*hugs*
Sounds like you have things right.
Quite a few play like that. I personally sketch out my characters history, just the main points and then fill in the detail as RP progresses. This locks those details in and over time I get a really rich tapestry of backstory that is relevant to the world and RP.
Also I totally get the OOC knowledge vs IC knowledge and actions. I would even go so far as to say I use the OOC knowledge to make the IC dumb char open up RP and lore for others.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - WhiteLycanXII - 06-06-2015
I figured I should step up to the plate.
I'm sorry to all the company I've taken for granted. I'll say it straight out, since starting FFXIV, I've had fallings out. I've made mistakes, and I've let my mood dictate my words and actions. As a result, I've alienated and pushed a few people away.
It's down to a point where companion ship feels like a clock ticking down. I know it doesn't have to be like that. Everything's about attitude and decision, I realize.
That said, I'mma try to be better. Try to handle things with more levity, and try to burn less bridges.
To those I've wronged and can't patch things up, I'll simply do what I can do: Say sorry and move on.
RE: The Sorry and Forgiveness Thread - Zhavi - 06-06-2015
Sorry I've been such a flakey mcflakerson of spazzy disappearing acts.
Maybe I should change my sig to "I'm not dead. I'm getting better."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sh8mNjeuyV4