I have a simple personal rule when it comes to writing intimacy: I don't write anything I haven't actually experienced and done irl.
Which may be a bit odd, given that for all other situations we write about things like punching robots and riding giant yellow birds, but those are more fantastically escapist as opposed to the more personal escapism of intimate scenes.
Realism and plausibility has more weight and is key when it comes to writing physical or emotional intimacy, in tandem with being well-spoken and descriptive. You have the right to avoid genres/experiences you're uncomfortable with and dislike, but you risk limiting yourself as a writer. There's a broad spectrum of life experience out there, from the seedy to the inspirational.
Of course, the game's rules apply. Don't be publicly overt with language/actions that can be considered obscene and reported, that's just rude. There's plenty of skin and NPC innuendo on display in the game, so consider those your benchmark limit of what's allowable to describe in public chat.
As relations develop and it make story/plot sense for characters to become intimate, naturally, you can write that in the comfort and safe privacy of your own party/FC/LS. It is, like any other genre of RP, a collaborative process and a writing exercise.
Sometimes it turns out to be a collaboration between hyur and miqo'te, roegadyn and lalafell, goobbue and goobbue. Let's none of us judge. O:>
Which may be a bit odd, given that for all other situations we write about things like punching robots and riding giant yellow birds, but those are more fantastically escapist as opposed to the more personal escapism of intimate scenes.
Realism and plausibility has more weight and is key when it comes to writing physical or emotional intimacy, in tandem with being well-spoken and descriptive. You have the right to avoid genres/experiences you're uncomfortable with and dislike, but you risk limiting yourself as a writer. There's a broad spectrum of life experience out there, from the seedy to the inspirational.
Of course, the game's rules apply. Don't be publicly overt with language/actions that can be considered obscene and reported, that's just rude. There's plenty of skin and NPC innuendo on display in the game, so consider those your benchmark limit of what's allowable to describe in public chat.
As relations develop and it make story/plot sense for characters to become intimate, naturally, you can write that in the comfort and safe privacy of your own party/FC/LS. It is, like any other genre of RP, a collaborative process and a writing exercise.
Sometimes it turns out to be a collaboration between hyur and miqo'te, roegadyn and lalafell, goobbue and goobbue. Let's none of us judge. O:>