(09-16-2014, 12:57 PM)Zyrusticae Wrote:(09-16-2014, 12:48 PM)Rurutani Wrote: By the way, to the person who decided to launch a huge curse laden rant to my skype because of my post, thank you for spoiling my day. I truly appreciate the class and friendship show to me there.Rule #1 when dealing with angry people:
Makes me super appreciative I joined this community.
Never, EVER say their anger is unjustified.
I run into this kind of response so often it drives me bonkers. Why would you ever think that being unsympathetic would somehow make things better? It doesn't. It NEVER works. So don't do it. Please.
This goes for everybody. It should be an absolutely basic rule of thumb. There have been so many instances where I get angry at something and people are just like "well that's not even that bad" which only makes me angrier! Seriously, just don't... don't. Just... stop that. Really. I don't want to hear it and I'm pretty damn sure I'm not the only one who feels that way.
A little bit of sympathy goes a long, long way, you know?
I still think it's wrong for the other person to insult and harass Ruru through skype.
