On an out of character level, erotic role play (or smut), isn't SUPER important to me. Sure, I enjoy writing out for development sake, but I do not need it. I always give my role play partner the choice whether s/he wants to fade to black, or be descriptive. I've done role plays where it was fade to black, and assumed the characters were sexually intimate with each other, and it's fine. I won't be upset, or throw a fit, if there is a lack of writing out those scenes.
Now for erotic role playing in character;
History; Chika was forced to work in a brothel from the point she was seventeen, until she was around the age of twenty-four. How this came to be is her mother forced her into the line of work, because she caught Chika with a woman, and as the heir Chika was expected to have multiple breeding males, and produce the next generation of Ito, in which she would have to pick out an heir. From this experience she learned a multitude of things. One; that a lot of men that come in only care about getting off. They don't care about you, or what happens to you afterward, or how rough they are. No, they'll damn well beat you if they please. This is rather obvious, of course. Two; that line of work has its rather dark days. Days where you just wanted to end it all. Chika hit a lot of depression while being in a brothel. Partially due to the fact of social isolation. When people know what you you encounter others who have differing views on what you do. They either; want to be you, want to be with you, or they look down on you because you make your living taking it up the rear and should get a proper job. With that aside since she was forced to have sex with men, and do anything to keep them happy (to the extent that if she didn't she'd be beat), it turned her off to guys. It's why it is impossible for her to be in a relationship with a man, because she finds no arousal whatsoever when it comes to their bodies.
Views/thoughts on prostitution; This leads me into my other point. What does Chika think of prostitution. She once made her money from working in a brothel. She doesn't mind prostitutes in the least. Several role plays that Chika has been involved in included helping cheer up women who work in this profession, because two viewed themselves poorly because of their career. Often she tries to get to know the woman on a more deeper level, interested in more than just the looks. There have been several times she visited Towering Falcon's business. Actually that is where she met her current wife, and how their relationship came to be in the first place.
Views/thoughts on sex in a relationship, and it's importance; Sex in a relationship is rather important to Chika. To her it is a way to bond with your partner on several levels. From the obvious physical, to emotional with her partner and her experiencing pleasure and happiness at the same time. It is a way for her to feel desired, needed, wanted, loved. Chika knows that sex shouldn't be the cornerstone for a relationship, or be that important. Honestly, it is something she struggles with. While she disliked having sex with men, she had female clients too back then. Not as often, but a woman's touch and caress became absolutely addicting to her. I had once listed her Vice (on another thread) as lust. On her profile under the 'flaw' section it is listed that she is a sex addict. Intimacy is something she needs. This has lead to some challenging points in her life for she was once with someone who wasn't intimate with her for a while. That's not something she is use to, at all. It drove her insane with need, and it made her rather depressed, and she started to doubt if she was actually desired and needed.
Her wife understands this, and does her best to make Chika happy. Chika's sex addiction has been rather mellow since T'urnessa and her started seeing each other. Nessa has brought out a more romantic, and gentle side in her. She has been shown by Nessa that she can experience pleasure outside of sex. From stealing tender kisses, to holding hands, to cuddling. If you were to ever ask Chika her favorite part of her day she'll tell you. It's when Nessa is curled up with a good book, and reading, with Chika at her side cuddling her. Making her wife laugh, and smile, has become her new addiction, and interestingly enough it gives her enough pleasure. Now don't get me wrong, she isn't in a sexless relationship. The two have an active intimate life. Even when the role player, and I, cannot spare enough time for the couple we assume that they are physically intimate numerous times throughout the week. See Nessa is very shy in character, and suffers with self confidence and has a lack of self esteem. So when it comes to sex, she gets super nervous. This is also a woman who is too shy to change in front of Chika. Every time before they get intimate, Chika always asks her wife if she's okay with it. If it is something that Nessa needs, and desires, rather than her just focusing on Chika's feelings. This is what has curbed Chika's sexual appetite. She'd willing sacrifice her own needs to make her wife happy. If that means just a night of cuddling, and reading in bed, so be it.Â
Chika would never force anything onto her wife. Even with her ex partners she didn't. What happened, happened. Sure, Chika is not without her kinks, but she'd never force is on her partner or lover. She always leaves it up to whom she is with on what they want to do.Â
Dominance; Dislikes male domination, but absolutely frakin' ADORES when a woman dominates her. Chika is naturally submissive in bed, because with an overall dominate personality she doesn't want that role in bed too. With her wife, however, she does take up the leadership/dominance role, and that is okay to her by all means because she is doing what makes her lover happy. Chika has had her fair share of experience with dominate men who push things too far. Not saying that women do not do that either, but with her taste for a man obviously lacking she would want someone who is casual and relaxed if she ever was single againÂ
That, however, is enough from me since I put in a huge chunk ^^; heh thanks for reading
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Chika Ito ---- Carter Perish ---- Cora DuBois ---- T'rahz Vashka
