(11-07-2014, 11:08 PM)allgivenover Wrote:(11-07-2014, 10:45 AM)Gaspard Wrote: and if you try to brush it off with 'It's RP so everything goes' you clearly do not understand the social dynamic behind roleplay and the inevitable link between player and character.
I think the primary difference between myself and those here who think there are things about RP that should be off limits - the topic at hand - is that I view RP as a writing exercise, because being a writer was my first and lasting dream even though I'm a software developer now.
I look at my RP as a shared narrative that I'm crafting with other people, and the simple truth of the matter is that most other RPers are far, far closer to their RP characters personally than I am to my own. So much so that when faced with something like this they simply cannot see it as anything but the other individual indulging a personal desire and rightfully feel revulsion and react with rejection. It's perfectly reasonable to expect that most would be this way and it's kind of silly how often I forget it.
Honestly it was a little too much effort on my part even posting about it. It's not even anything that happens with Rakka'li, in fact the vast majority of the people he's been involved with have been older than him - in one case ten years older!
No you definitely had a few fair points, and like you said the hard part about this is that I don't think the people who are doing it inappropriately will stop any time soon. I just hope this isn't an inescapable trend. Â And I think it's true- A lot of the problem with discussing this topic is that it's instinct to approach it from our own minds where our portrayal of such matter could be approached from a perfectly literary context with no erotic intent. Not everyone's intentions are so noble, which even then I could tolerate (regardless of my personal opinions) if it didn't adversely affect others.
