
Two things that come to my mind when I read your initial post (and your clarifications about your discomfort with the idea of minors being sexually active): Kids have sex, and OOC communication is key.
I didn't have penis-in-vagina sex until I was 18, mainly because I wasn't ready for it before then. I did do all sorts of other things that were very distinctly sexual when I was younger, and I knew plenty of other people who were far more sexually active than I was as minors. Kids have sex. It happens.
Now, I'm not sure where your objection really lies with the idea of minors in sexual situations in RP. If you're uncomfortable with the idea of getting involved in some heavy ERP with someone who's character is underage, the clear solution is to send them a tell saying "Hey, how old is your character?". If you're uncomfortable with the idea of getting into heavy ERP with someone who's player is underage, that's stickier. Perhaps the best solution to that is to not ERP at all. If you're uncomfortable with the idea of other people flirting with underage characters in your presence, the clear solution is to manage your black list, perhaps with a nice atmosphere-building emote: "/em turns away from Humbert and Lolita, his eyes dropping to his ale. Ul'dah was a libertine and libidinous place, something he'd never really been comfortable with."
I didn't have penis-in-vagina sex until I was 18, mainly because I wasn't ready for it before then. I did do all sorts of other things that were very distinctly sexual when I was younger, and I knew plenty of other people who were far more sexually active than I was as minors. Kids have sex. It happens.
Now, I'm not sure where your objection really lies with the idea of minors in sexual situations in RP. If you're uncomfortable with the idea of getting involved in some heavy ERP with someone who's character is underage, the clear solution is to send them a tell saying "Hey, how old is your character?". If you're uncomfortable with the idea of getting into heavy ERP with someone who's player is underage, that's stickier. Perhaps the best solution to that is to not ERP at all. If you're uncomfortable with the idea of other people flirting with underage characters in your presence, the clear solution is to manage your black list, perhaps with a nice atmosphere-building emote: "/em turns away from Humbert and Lolita, his eyes dropping to his ale. Ul'dah was a libertine and libidinous place, something he'd never really been comfortable with."