
Recently, a friend of Armi's who was renting out her house (Since she now lives with her current boyfriend) died. She... didn't handle it well.
1. Denial: This is actually the shortest stage for her, she didn't deny it at all.
2 . Anger: There was a lot of this, but Armi doesn't compartmentalize anger very well. It always shows itself as despair or frustration. She was angry at the Gods for taking him away before he should have gone. But it only came out as "He bought a table." referring to a patio table he bought for the her house that he was planning on using for guests, but he was never able to.
3. Bargaining: Everyone was trying to find a way to maybe bring him back. There just wasn't a way to.
4. Depression: That whole "He bought a table" thing pretty much destroyed her for awhile.
5. Acceptance: Not there yet.
He died almost a month ago. It's still hard for her to think about.
1. Denial: This is actually the shortest stage for her, she didn't deny it at all.
2 . Anger: There was a lot of this, but Armi doesn't compartmentalize anger very well. It always shows itself as despair or frustration. She was angry at the Gods for taking him away before he should have gone. But it only came out as "He bought a table." referring to a patio table he bought for the her house that he was planning on using for guests, but he was never able to.
3. Bargaining: Everyone was trying to find a way to maybe bring him back. There just wasn't a way to.
4. Depression: That whole "He bought a table" thing pretty much destroyed her for awhile.
5. Acceptance: Not there yet.
He died almost a month ago. It's still hard for her to think about.