I've been lucky enough to meet a large group of people who, while we expect competency, we can still laugh and have shits and giggles over some minor mistakes depending on content. I might be able to put you in contact with my EU friends and see if they know anyone or if I can somehow put you in one of the more casual PVE but nicer people Linkshells I've made.
((Seriously one thing I find a little shameful is something I did in a T9 evaluation of who we would invite to our merc group. It was starting to get frustrating because of my net issues and people dying to stupid stuff. In the last phase, every other Divebomb set is Dive 1 then Iron Chariot Dive 2 and then Lunar Dynamo which means whoever has the marker for the 2nd Divebomb needs to get to the center stack ASAP or they get hit hard and heal the boss. As BLM, aetherial manipulation is great. I was 2nd divebomb. I get there, and I'm ready to AM. TOO ready. Before the marker disappears, I click it, join the group, go "FUCK" in voip, and start running away.
Queue watching the group get blasted to death as I just got them all divebombed. While I watched.
The awesome WHM describes the event "Yeah I saw her go there.. suddenly she's with us and I think "why's she here so fast. wait why is she running away- oh no."
tl;dr I did something stuid that wiped a group once but everybody in that run says "I can't even get mad."))
((Seriously one thing I find a little shameful is something I did in a T9 evaluation of who we would invite to our merc group. It was starting to get frustrating because of my net issues and people dying to stupid stuff. In the last phase, every other Divebomb set is Dive 1 then Iron Chariot Dive 2 and then Lunar Dynamo which means whoever has the marker for the 2nd Divebomb needs to get to the center stack ASAP or they get hit hard and heal the boss. As BLM, aetherial manipulation is great. I was 2nd divebomb. I get there, and I'm ready to AM. TOO ready. Before the marker disappears, I click it, join the group, go "FUCK" in voip, and start running away.
Queue watching the group get blasted to death as I just got them all divebombed. While I watched.
The awesome WHM describes the event "Yeah I saw her go there.. suddenly she's with us and I think "why's she here so fast. wait why is she running away- oh no."
tl;dr I did something stuid that wiped a group once but everybody in that run says "I can't even get mad."))