Nara'to, its hard to meet new people. I understand that well, and I've been through the same challenges. My best advice is simple: talk to people. Don't emote about being approachable, approach people instead. If you stand alone emote about being approachable, and no one approaches you, then no one in the entire situation is approaching anyone else, in this you're no less guilty than those you're frustrated with.Â
You just have to bite the bullet and actually approach someone to broach conversation. You may have to try several times to have any success. You may run into someone who isn't friendly, who isn't interested, or is afk, or who simply misses that you're trying to interact with them (especially a problem in a crowded area). OOC whispers can be helpful in this regard, to let someone know you're trying to approach them. But, the bottom line is that there are is an absolute abundance of RPers on the server, most of whom are happy to meet new people. Getting your foot in the door is the hard part, just as it is when trying to make connections in real life. There's simply no substitute for putting your foot in as many doors as you can bear until you find the right ones.
You just have to bite the bullet and actually approach someone to broach conversation. You may have to try several times to have any success. You may run into someone who isn't friendly, who isn't interested, or is afk, or who simply misses that you're trying to interact with them (especially a problem in a crowded area). OOC whispers can be helpful in this regard, to let someone know you're trying to approach them. But, the bottom line is that there are is an absolute abundance of RPers on the server, most of whom are happy to meet new people. Getting your foot in the door is the hard part, just as it is when trying to make connections in real life. There's simply no substitute for putting your foot in as many doors as you can bear until you find the right ones.