It can be hard to get into an established or popular group. I know I have even been blacklisted on this site for disagreeing with a popular member before (Because the site actually lets you know when you've been blacklisted by saying you've been thrown on some invisible buddylist). *Shrug* I understand how hard it can be if you're on the outside.
I know a lot of it is people being shy and expecting people to come to them, but I also know that's not always the case.
I know a lot of it is people being shy and expecting people to come to them, but I also know that's not always the case.