(03-27-2015, 11:56 AM)ArmachiA Wrote: Look, no one is saying that the populars didn't work hard. It was an attempt to realize there are failings on both sides, which people admit and then go right back to blaming the new rpers side. No one has even said "What can we do to seem more available?"Think of it as less blame as a 'what to do/what not to do'. He did say he did not intend to demonize the guy, after all. I think his words have merit, given that he openly admits to being one of the people ON that side, even if he's siding with the other.
Quote:Gonna side with the folks who believe getting into a community is a two way street, partly because I fail at it, but is my own failing no one else is responsible.
At first I agreed then it went into how Nara'to failed and not... the other side of the community. No one in here has discussed the established part of the community without going "But, really, it's not us, it's them." I'm just asking for a bit of social awareness. If it really is a two way street, admit the failings of the OTHER side too, then maybe we can find some common ground and see if anything can be fixed.
It's really not much to ask to try to see BOTH sides of the argument, here.
He's in the perfect position to see and speak about it, really.