Something else (again, sorry) I find really really really important is around that "hey poke me I'm always happy to have some new connections" thing.
I know that I will probably attract some grunts, but I would like to give my opinion about this (also I don't aim anybody by saying that, d.. Don't get angry okay ._.) .
This is only good for some people already having their group and not being fussed about making some new connection. But don't do that if you're actually trying hard to make some new connection. If that works it's a miracle.
That's all the problem here about making connection. You cannot put yourself on some stall and hope people to pick you without selling yourself. You cannot just say "Hey I'm available" or "I would like to RP with X" and expect people to come and find you.
You have to create the occasion.
I tried to give some ideas here and here but I forgot to say that finding some new people to RP with is exactly like fishing.
You wouldn't go and sit on a rock, in front of the river, saying "Hey, I'm available for eating fish" and expect the fish coming in your basket, right ? Here is the same. You have to use a bait and so to find the other person favorite RP food. While many RPer are available for random RP, I can tell you that if you have a hook for them which is coherent with the person you aim and will provide some RP which won't be "trivial" (like talking about the QS food or the weather), you will really make some good connection that will last long enough if you do your possible to nourish it.
Random RP is a thing, personalized RP occasion is another and the least one is loved by most RPer and will provide you real connection, not tavern buddies.
I know that I will probably attract some grunts, but I would like to give my opinion about this (also I don't aim anybody by saying that, d.. Don't get angry okay ._.) .
This is only good for some people already having their group and not being fussed about making some new connection. But don't do that if you're actually trying hard to make some new connection. If that works it's a miracle.
That's all the problem here about making connection. You cannot put yourself on some stall and hope people to pick you without selling yourself. You cannot just say "Hey I'm available" or "I would like to RP with X" and expect people to come and find you.
You have to create the occasion.
I tried to give some ideas here and here but I forgot to say that finding some new people to RP with is exactly like fishing.
You wouldn't go and sit on a rock, in front of the river, saying "Hey, I'm available for eating fish" and expect the fish coming in your basket, right ? Here is the same. You have to use a bait and so to find the other person favorite RP food. While many RPer are available for random RP, I can tell you that if you have a hook for them which is coherent with the person you aim and will provide some RP which won't be "trivial" (like talking about the QS food or the weather), you will really make some good connection that will last long enough if you do your possible to nourish it.
Random RP is a thing, personalized RP occasion is another and the least one is loved by most RPer and will provide you real connection, not tavern buddies.
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