(03-28-2015, 07:08 AM)Domri Blackblade Wrote:(03-28-2015, 07:06 AM)ArmachiA Wrote: If nothing needs to change, then nothing needs to change. However the point of this thread is to discuss possible changes.
on both sides
I'm not disputing that. I just keep seeing the argument tossed around that the community needs to change, which it very well may, and then listing under that a lot of personal shyness as a part of that. I'm saying there's not much the community can do to combat personal shyness. Not that there's nothing that community can do to be more open.
Right, I don't expect personal shyness to fall on the community (Hence why I'm against complete hand holding [obviously some hand holding is okay]) but was me actually asking for myself. I want to help shy people, since I'm not shy myself, and want to know from shy people how I can be a little more open and understanding without having to completely be in their face all the time.