
(04-02-2015, 11:31 AM)Zhavi Wrote: Yup, when I'm being all active I regularly delete the oldest of my messages, except ones with information I might need (there's an archive feature?!). Â What Warren says is true, and it's the same thing I've been telling you: private, assertive communication is a healthy thing to do here. Â I know it's a pain, because you want to just do one lump round in a thread and have done, but nothing will ever beat one-on-one for cutting through misunderstandings. Â Not that one-on-one solves everything (my very long series of attempts to help my mother and sister understand where I'm coming from attests to that!), but it will definitely aid here.
And, I mean, think of it this way: you've already tried this route before. Â It isn't working for you, man. Â Time to try something else.
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