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RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) |
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04-08-2015, 04:41 PM
(This post was last modified: 04-08-2015, 04:42 PM by Aris.)
I've never been deeply hurt in the game, as I don't know anyone very well enough to hurt me to such an extent - but I've been hurt by friends who I met over the internet which is the same thing. To be honest, to me it's just the same as being hurt by friends in person, except on the net it's easier to block them and never see them again, whereas that's a little more difficult in person depending on social circles. But I digress. Tongue

I think it's important to get some space from the situation first of all, especially if emotions are raging. It's no good making a decision or trying to talk to someone when you or they are like that because if people get angry or upset they often can't think rationally, or in an argument pride can get in the way over logic.

After that, I guess I usually approach them and talk it out. Communication is important, especially if it's a friend. Try and understand the situation and the other person's point of view. It's difficult to say much further because it depends on the situation. But I'm trying to remember there's no point regretting anything, because you can't change the past, but you can change the future. There is always something to learn from it - so learn and move on, because I can always change myself for the better. And accept their apology, but if they're a repeat offender consider taking a step away because it's not worth putting up with someone who makes you feel hurt on a regular basis.
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Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Erik Mynhier - 04-08-2015, 02:28 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Faye - 04-08-2015, 02:40 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Zhavi - 04-08-2015, 03:25 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by g0ne - 04-08-2015, 02:49 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Bryn - 04-08-2015, 02:49 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Domri Blackblade - 04-08-2015, 03:06 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by DreamedReality - 04-08-2015, 03:56 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by g0ne - 04-08-2015, 03:59 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Magellan - 04-08-2015, 07:22 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Virella - 04-08-2015, 04:54 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Berrod Armstrong - 04-08-2015, 05:43 AM
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RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Val - 04-08-2015, 05:51 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Melodia - 04-08-2015, 06:50 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by ChewableMorphine - 04-08-2015, 07:14 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Chris Ganale - 04-08-2015, 07:15 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Warren Castille - 04-08-2015, 07:19 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Steel Wolf - 04-08-2015, 07:44 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Jerciex - 04-08-2015, 08:06 AM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Rila - 04-08-2015, 03:18 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Flashhelix - 04-08-2015, 03:29 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by McBeefâ„¢ - 04-08-2015, 03:30 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Nebbs - 04-08-2015, 03:48 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Qhora Bajihri - 04-08-2015, 04:04 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Aris - 04-08-2015, 04:41 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Aaron - 04-08-2015, 04:57 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Titor - 04-08-2015, 05:14 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Nebbs - 04-08-2015, 05:16 PM
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RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Parvacake - 04-08-2015, 05:27 PM
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RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by SicketySix - 04-08-2015, 07:22 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by Aaron - 04-08-2015, 07:48 PM
RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by ArmachiA - 04-08-2015, 07:55 PM
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RE: Hurt Feelings (Advice Thread) - by industrythirteen - 04-19-2015, 08:31 PM

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