
Hurt by people in this game? Yes, yes I have. And I agree with Faye, it does depend on the situation.. However, I learned that sometimes, when you are trying to fix yourself at that exact moment is to just let that pain out. If you feel like crying? Cry. If you feel like scream? Yell into a pillow. If you need to be alone for a bit, that is okay too.
Listening to music that is upbeat or.. Just plain stupid is a good way too. Or watching a funny show.
Take yourself away from the game for a little bit so you can focus on yourself. In time, reflect on what happened, think on if you can confront the person in a calm manner. Don't be afraid to be honest to them and admit you were hurt by their actions. From what I have seen of what others say in this forum, honesty is a big part of things and I agree. It is a key element. Surround yourself with friends that care and if the wound is still too fresh, try to remain upbeat. Talk to friends your trust, get it off your chest.
Become a Daruma! Even if you fall, pick yourself back up again! It's always best to look ahead.
I hope this was decently helpful. I came across this before and used some of the ways others suggested and it did help so, just to quickly say, thanks everyone. You all are amazing
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Listening to music that is upbeat or.. Just plain stupid is a good way too. Or watching a funny show.
Take yourself away from the game for a little bit so you can focus on yourself. In time, reflect on what happened, think on if you can confront the person in a calm manner. Don't be afraid to be honest to them and admit you were hurt by their actions. From what I have seen of what others say in this forum, honesty is a big part of things and I agree. It is a key element. Surround yourself with friends that care and if the wound is still too fresh, try to remain upbeat. Talk to friends your trust, get it off your chest.
Become a Daruma! Even if you fall, pick yourself back up again! It's always best to look ahead.
I hope this was decently helpful. I came across this before and used some of the ways others suggested and it did help so, just to quickly say, thanks everyone. You all are amazing
d^-^b