Sadly, I ran in to this issue just the other day. A character was harassing a friend's character and using more then colorful language. I can understand the F word here or there;hell, Bri uses it; but the C word constantly in every sentence is just pushing it. I was polite and asked if the player did rolls in which he agreed to but when I rolled to toss him for his language and won he refused to acknowledge it by saying 'Will not be tossed by a character smaller then him and is combat trained.' The man was a midlander and smaller then Bri.
At that point I took note of the character's name, removed Bri from the confrontation and Rp'd around the man to get the group I was with to leave the area as he obviously was not leaving; even after being punched in the face by another player. It is very unwelcoming to run in to people like this. I understand you want your character to be big and bad; I know Bri acts (and has gotten her ass kicked constantly); but you are in a game with others. If you want your character to be the strongest out there you are going to be in a world of hurt either for RP or for friends. This is an online game, not your personal fanfiction.
At that point I took note of the character's name, removed Bri from the confrontation and Rp'd around the man to get the group I was with to leave the area as he obviously was not leaving; even after being punched in the face by another player. It is very unwelcoming to run in to people like this. I understand you want your character to be big and bad; I know Bri acts (and has gotten her ass kicked constantly); but you are in a game with others. If you want your character to be the strongest out there you are going to be in a world of hurt either for RP or for friends. This is an online game, not your personal fanfiction.