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I've very much learned that walk up RP, well if you intend on it to really make up for adventure or something, you might be in for a hard time.
On that note, I'm not sure you'll find many people doing random walk-up that will do much other than meet-and-greet. I'm not sure if that's exactly what you want, but not many normal people will go approach a person who is also pretty shy and then saw "Join me in this!"
On another note, the RPC only reflects an -extremely- small portion of the roleplaying community on Balmung. It's even less so for other servers. I would wager there are more RPers on Balmung who utilize Tumblr than are of the "RPC community." So I apologize if you have met 0 success in your endeavor. Unfortunately, we can't help you with that as we don't influence the Balmung RP community.
A lot of us -do- know how it feels to be shy. Unfortunately, we're always going to need that one person to help us out. Drag us. Or, drag ourselves. I've been under the mindset that I've burned too many bridges, no one would want to talk to me OOCLY or ICly. But, you know what you have to do? Just approach them. Keeping it. Yes, you will have to meet some who just cannot keep up with too many people. I'm not sure what we can do, if anything.
I've met other roleplayers who can't deal with the amount of chat running through places like the Grindstone and the Quicksand. Roleplaying with 2 people or more is hard for them. They can't do it in groups higher than that so unfortunately, they hope you might reach someone else.
I'm sure i've burnt bridges. I'm sure people don't want to talk to me or RP with me, ever again. But I've had others who when i sent them a friend request, tell, pm they said "sure let's rp" I've walked up to people here on the RPC and they've received me kindly. You don't need to extensively plan something just.. "I see you online, any chance to just RP? Where can I RP with you?"
If you want more, yes you will have to plan. I'm currently trying to "plan" an encounter, whom I've wanted to RP with for OVER A YEAR, that is more than "just walk up and ask if you can buy them a couple of drinks." I want things to be more than just "oh yes I met them." I want to build significant experiences and friendships for my character with these people but it requires talking and yes planning.
If not, I would be be just saying hello. Ok. Bye.
A character I met, because one of my real life friends said "oh meet her!" told my character "Fake it until you make it. Or just keep faking it." It's something my character still does, and myself. Because my god am I still just faking it.
On that note, I'm not sure you'll find many people doing random walk-up that will do much other than meet-and-greet. I'm not sure if that's exactly what you want, but not many normal people will go approach a person who is also pretty shy and then saw "Join me in this!"
On another note, the RPC only reflects an -extremely- small portion of the roleplaying community on Balmung. It's even less so for other servers. I would wager there are more RPers on Balmung who utilize Tumblr than are of the "RPC community." So I apologize if you have met 0 success in your endeavor. Unfortunately, we can't help you with that as we don't influence the Balmung RP community.
A lot of us -do- know how it feels to be shy. Unfortunately, we're always going to need that one person to help us out. Drag us. Or, drag ourselves. I've been under the mindset that I've burned too many bridges, no one would want to talk to me OOCLY or ICly. But, you know what you have to do? Just approach them. Keeping it. Yes, you will have to meet some who just cannot keep up with too many people. I'm not sure what we can do, if anything.
I've met other roleplayers who can't deal with the amount of chat running through places like the Grindstone and the Quicksand. Roleplaying with 2 people or more is hard for them. They can't do it in groups higher than that so unfortunately, they hope you might reach someone else.
I'm sure i've burnt bridges. I'm sure people don't want to talk to me or RP with me, ever again. But I've had others who when i sent them a friend request, tell, pm they said "sure let's rp" I've walked up to people here on the RPC and they've received me kindly. You don't need to extensively plan something just.. "I see you online, any chance to just RP? Where can I RP with you?"
If you want more, yes you will have to plan. I'm currently trying to "plan" an encounter, whom I've wanted to RP with for OVER A YEAR, that is more than "just walk up and ask if you can buy them a couple of drinks." I want things to be more than just "oh yes I met them." I want to build significant experiences and friendships for my character with these people but it requires talking and yes planning.
If not, I would be be just saying hello. Ok. Bye.
A character I met, because one of my real life friends said "oh meet her!" told my character "Fake it until you make it. Or just keep faking it." It's something my character still does, and myself. Because my god am I still just faking it.