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RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. |
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05-13-2015, 12:31 PM
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(05-13-2015, 09:56 AM)LiadansWhisper Wrote:
(05-13-2015, 09:52 AM)Unnamed Mercenary Wrote: I think it's because a of a recent influx of people trying to say "this is my personal blog/diary/journal" to get away with "PSA: I THINK THIS PERSON IS BAD AND EVERYONE SHOULD HATE AND AVOID THAT PERSON TOO!" posts. ...it's not a personal piece of writing when it's literally being used to promote negative behavior. ...We're all adults (or close enough in the border cases) to know how to be respectable people. I don't see the need to publicly post something that will be forever indexed and searchable (by let's just say Google for speed) forever.

I'll admit that I've seen a lot of what I can only call witch hunts (sorry, but it applies) wherein a person is accused of something fairly awful, and while there is no proof, they are essentially labeled the antichrist, with people exhorting others to publicly shun them, etc.

It's one reason why I avoid Tumblr in general (tho I have an account there), and why I tend to look at people who are seriously into Tumblr with a squinty eyes.  I know there are many people on Tumblr who are nothing like that, but it's really hard to tell just in general.
I actually had this happen to me back in the beginning times of Path of Oschon. Former members apparently felt I treated them unfairly in regards to a number of things and decided to rant about it on their tumblrs... Stating things such as avoid Path of Oschon, the leader Raandal Bennett, his wife Daphine Rysen, etc. etc.... Then a bunch of their tumblr buddies decided to raise their pitchforks and "spread the word".

I was called things like masogynistic because I told my wife to "go make me a sammich, woman!" In /fc chat. Even though these members had direct interaction with one of my characters that was a very empowered and strong woman in a position of power. But, you know, playing around with my -wife- in fc chat was a big no no. 

Apparently I was also making fun of their characters and the like. Very anti-gay (their words), even though I have male and female characters that delve in such activities.

Blah blah blah. At the end of the day, it doesn't really bother me because they're faceless names to me that are just looking for a reason to be offended/upset. I have no quantifiable proof that what they did effected our recruitment in one way or another and, honestly, I don't care because the people we DID get into the company were great and many wonderful memories were had.

The biggest thing that bothered me, really, was the fact that they never once took the time to talk to me (or my wife) about the issues they had.... that were apparently building up over weeks to months.... and instead opted to write their rant on tumblr.

At the end of the day... I moved on. This is still in my mind, not because it bothers me, but because it's ridiculous how, for lack of a better term, silly people can be. Like I said, even with them doing this I still had great times and wonderful memories made with all of the people that did join and interact with our company.

Tl;dr: I, and my wife and company, have been the target of one of these "witch hunts". It's easy enough to just shake it off and move on knowing full well that the silly people are only hurting themselves by missing out on the great times I personally had.

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If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 01:47 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 01:51 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 02:12 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 01:57 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 01:57 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 02:11 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Miah Polaali - 05-13-2015, 02:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 02:47 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Sailor July - 05-13-2015, 02:55 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by g0ne - 05-13-2015, 02:56 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 05:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Clover - 05-13-2015, 03:21 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Flickering Ember - 05-13-2015, 10:19 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Desu Nee - 05-13-2015, 10:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 10:43 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 10:49 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by D'aito Kuji - 05-13-2015, 01:04 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 03:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Vali - 05-13-2015, 03:37 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 03:42 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by industrythirteen - 05-13-2015, 03:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Gone. - 05-13-2015, 03:39 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Maril - 05-13-2015, 04:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Sorora - 05-13-2015, 06:07 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 06:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 06:26 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 06:28 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 06:49 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 06:53 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Yssen - 05-13-2015, 07:53 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 08:07 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Yssen - 05-13-2015, 08:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by No Longer Exists - 05-13-2015, 07:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Aaron - 05-13-2015, 07:25 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LadyRochester - 05-13-2015, 08:00 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Maril - 05-13-2015, 08:43 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 08:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 08:07 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 08:48 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 09:10 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 09:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 10:36 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 10:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 11:16 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 11:27 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Blue - 05-13-2015, 11:50 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Max - 05-13-2015, 08:06 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Askier - 05-13-2015, 08:23 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LadyRochester - 05-13-2015, 08:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Askier - 05-13-2015, 09:17 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 09:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Aduu Avagnar - 05-13-2015, 08:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 08:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Yssen - 05-13-2015, 09:08 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kage - 05-13-2015, 08:43 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 08:56 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 08:58 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 09:11 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 09:15 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by RiniKett - 05-13-2015, 09:14 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by T'caska Khevo - 05-13-2015, 09:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Melodia - 05-13-2015, 09:30 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 09:34 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by shotgunbadger - 05-13-2015, 09:26 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 09:26 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Askier - 05-13-2015, 09:55 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 10:08 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Desu Nee - 05-13-2015, 10:18 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 09:41 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 09:46 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 09:52 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LiadansWhisper - 05-13-2015, 09:56 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Enteris - 05-13-2015, 12:31 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LiadansWhisper - 05-13-2015, 09:48 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by shotgunbadger - 05-13-2015, 09:58 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 10:01 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LiadansWhisper - 05-13-2015, 10:02 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 10:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 10:11 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Desu Nee - 05-13-2015, 10:02 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Reiner Dorn - 05-13-2015, 10:18 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Makyn Loneseeker - 05-13-2015, 10:38 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 10:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Blue - 05-13-2015, 10:50 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Maril - 05-13-2015, 11:05 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 10:52 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kage - 05-13-2015, 10:57 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 11:00 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 11:05 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 11:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 11:08 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 11:23 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Accurator - 05-13-2015, 11:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Arrelaine - 05-13-2015, 11:06 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by AquiziTC - 05-13-2015, 11:17 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 11:58 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 12:14 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Hammersmith - 05-13-2015, 11:59 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 12:17 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 12:20 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 12:20 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kellach Woods - 05-13-2015, 12:31 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Seye Qhesu - 05-13-2015, 12:35 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by g0ne - 05-13-2015, 12:55 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 01:06 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by g0ne - 05-13-2015, 01:11 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kage - 05-13-2015, 12:56 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Hammersmith - 05-13-2015, 01:08 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Virella - 05-13-2015, 01:07 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Max - 05-13-2015, 01:18 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Virella - 05-13-2015, 01:39 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 01:08 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Hammersmith - 05-13-2015, 01:08 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:23 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 01:26 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:27 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 01:30 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:31 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 01:35 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:38 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 01:32 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 02:49 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kellach Woods - 05-13-2015, 02:53 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 02:55 PM
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RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Melkire - 05-13-2015, 03:02 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Flashhelix - 05-13-2015, 04:10 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kalooeh - 05-13-2015, 04:29 PM
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RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 05:13 PM
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RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 05:20 PM
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RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 06:16 PM
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