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RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? |
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05-18-2015, 08:50 AM
The Botany levequest "Caught in the Long Grass" mentions Sharlayan marriages...

Quote:A tinker called this dig a Sharlayan marriage: much suffering that culminates in charming offsprings and at least one death. It seemed baseless cheek at the time, but... Three naturalists have suffered broken bones this day. They must have tripped on the thick undergrowth; what else could it be?

... Which don't really sound like a fun thing...

(05-17-2015, 11:45 PM)Chris Ganale Wrote: That said, on the topic of finding someone willing to perform a marriage, I'd say that when an Ishgardian knight captain shows up at a chapel with a squad of knights and says that there will be a wedding, usually there's a wedding to follow.
Eh... not necessarily. At least possibly not in an Ishgardian chapel.

Ishgard seems to be very much a church-run state, where the priesthood has significantly more power than the knighthood. From what I got from the various quests in Coerthas, questioning/denying/defying the church is an unthinkable act, or at least one that's best done behind closed doors and in trusted company else you run the risk of being branded as an unbeliever, heathen, or (worse) a possible heretic. Even Haurchefant had to step carefully during the 30-something MSQ or risk being accused as a heretic (Guillaime's actual legitimacy to make such accusations at that point doesn't factor in).

If the attending priest said no (medieval Europe has many stories based around a priest denying a marriage because of lack of "recognized" permission/consent for the bride, to the dowry wasn't enough, to someone marrying below their station, to the priest not liking the family of one of the parties, to someone's position in the church was questionable, and to "God said 'No'"), it's likely that that could be the end of it. The couple could try to bounce around to various chapels until they found someone they could convince to carry out the ceremony, but the previous ones that said 'no' could come out of the woodwork and annul he wedding, call for the knight to put his/her spouse aside (especially if the spouse is "of lower class" or unbeliever/outsider), or even face excommunication or loss of station. Going outside Ishgard for a wedding, the wedding might not even be recognized back inside Ishgard.

*shrugs*

It's just speculation on my part.
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Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Velaena - 05-17-2015, 06:37 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Meena - 05-17-2015, 06:51 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Ciel - 05-17-2015, 06:54 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Warren Castille - 05-17-2015, 07:05 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Virella - 05-17-2015, 07:07 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Chris Ganale - 05-17-2015, 07:23 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Imo - 05-17-2015, 10:06 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Chris Ganale - 05-17-2015, 10:09 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Imo - 05-17-2015, 10:13 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Chris Ganale - 05-17-2015, 10:15 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Mercurias - 05-17-2015, 11:34 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Chris Ganale - 05-17-2015, 11:45 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Steel Wolf - 05-18-2015, 07:03 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Mae - 05-18-2015, 08:50 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Chris Ganale - 05-18-2015, 02:10 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Ignacius - 05-18-2015, 09:19 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by shotgunbadger - 05-18-2015, 09:30 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Khadan - 05-18-2015, 01:28 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Velaena - 05-18-2015, 10:53 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Martiallais - 05-18-2015, 11:10 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Mae - 05-18-2015, 11:41 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by C'kayah Polaali - 05-18-2015, 01:02 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Mae - 05-18-2015, 01:32 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Kalooeh - 05-19-2015, 03:32 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Volk - 05-18-2015, 11:54 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-18-2015, 01:34 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Volk - 05-18-2015, 02:30 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by D'aito Kuji - 05-18-2015, 01:18 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by OttoVann - 05-18-2015, 02:44 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Kismet - 05-18-2015, 03:21 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Flickering Ember - 05-19-2015, 11:48 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by ArmachiA - 05-19-2015, 03:48 AM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Shofie - 05-19-2015, 03:35 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Manari - 05-19-2015, 03:44 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Nako Vesh - 05-19-2015, 04:27 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Dogberry - 05-19-2015, 04:37 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Chris Ganale - 05-19-2015, 04:45 PM
RE: Marriage: How do you handle it? - by Ilwe'ran - 05-20-2015, 06:09 PM

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