I'm one of those people who trash talks. Â That said, someone usually has to do something so shitty it makes me genuinely furious in order to push me to that limit. Â Most of the problems I've had with people in the community at all have been strictly OOC drama, and those were mostly players I migrated into 14 with. Â Since I've joined, I don't think I've had a bit of drama that's been genuinely IC that's caused me to rant/vent about another player. Â However, those players I have had issues with, I've warned those who I've come in contact with who get 'close' to them. Â Usually something along the lines of "There was this drama, so be careful you don't get entrenched in it."
Otherwise, I'm not willing to say anything behind someone's back that I won't say to their face. Â That probably makes me seem like a pretty nasty individual, but I just don't believe in saying it about them if I'm not willing to say it in front of them. Â That said, even my OOC issues, I've just kind of given the shoulder lately. Â Even the worst drama I had wasn't worth holding on to, because it limited my interactions with people because I was avoiding certain players. Â So I just started playing where I wanted, when I wanted, and I've been having a lot of fun with it. Â
That said, I understand where OP is coming from. Â People tend to be pretty toxic to each other during any kind of conflict. Â It happens, it really does.
Otherwise, I'm not willing to say anything behind someone's back that I won't say to their face. Â That probably makes me seem like a pretty nasty individual, but I just don't believe in saying it about them if I'm not willing to say it in front of them. Â That said, even my OOC issues, I've just kind of given the shoulder lately. Â Even the worst drama I had wasn't worth holding on to, because it limited my interactions with people because I was avoiding certain players. Â So I just started playing where I wanted, when I wanted, and I've been having a lot of fun with it. Â
That said, I understand where OP is coming from. Â People tend to be pretty toxic to each other during any kind of conflict. Â It happens, it really does.
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