I'll try to put my thoughts in an understandable manner.
First, why do wallflowers need to be eliminated? Is it to help the shy roleplayer who later talks about the lack of roleplay or is it to satisfy the roleplayer confident in their random / open RP but finds a lot of wallflowers that won't respond to them?
For the former, I believe the 'solution' is to find roleplay initiatives. Hooks. Maybe even plans by initiating OOC dialogue that says "just have these two meetup and this is why they might talk to each other" Waiting for RP will never be the solution.
For the latter, perhaps the one who wants to initiate just isn't interesting enough for the 'wallflower' to want to engage with. Maybe the wallflower is content to watch and observe. That is perfectly all right but if they do complain that is on them. After all, an attempt to initiate RP -was- made.
First, why do wallflowers need to be eliminated? Is it to help the shy roleplayer who later talks about the lack of roleplay or is it to satisfy the roleplayer confident in their random / open RP but finds a lot of wallflowers that won't respond to them?
For the former, I believe the 'solution' is to find roleplay initiatives. Hooks. Maybe even plans by initiating OOC dialogue that says "just have these two meetup and this is why they might talk to each other" Waiting for RP will never be the solution.
For the latter, perhaps the one who wants to initiate just isn't interesting enough for the 'wallflower' to want to engage with. Maybe the wallflower is content to watch and observe. That is perfectly all right but if they do complain that is on them. After all, an attempt to initiate RP -was- made.
