
(05-16-2013, 05:31 PM)Rhynka Wrote: This right here is what I am afraid of. The reason I killed off my character and left WoW. A similar idea was being imposed on me, I felt violated OoC when a reasonable request to fade to black on the kinky bits was met with hostility. The guy in question was considered respectable by the community so instead of going against the grain I killed her off ICly. (Since the man acted like IC and OoC were one in the same.) My husband also wasn't happy with the way the guy acted like he owned me OoC as well with all the lewd comments over vent infront of others and threw a fit when my husband told him to back off. Since then we decided we do not want to engage with anything that enforces an idea remotely like that. I still want Rhynka to be mysterious, exotic and feral but I don't like the whole challenging the Nuhn system there.
The lore there doesn't state it was absolute fact for all Miqo'te everywhere. You can change it to suit your needs to a degree if you want to run with the whole tribal idea and people won't / shouldn't come down on you with a lore hammer. It could be really easily explained too. Family members from your tribe decided they wanted to be together exclusively and so either A) left to form their own tribe B) managed to change the rules of their own tribe of C) any other method you can come up with.
As for your experience in WoW. I'm terribly sorry for that experience you had. At least know that here we are much more respectable about personal space and comfort zones for all types of Role Play. Not everyone wants to deal with different things and we (should) respect each others choices and limits.