(05-16-2013, 06:07 PM)Eva Wrote: I know it's a little off-topic but I felt compelled to respond:Thank you very much! I am relieved that such deviations are welcome! I hope the ones I wrote on and came up with can enhance my role play with others! I don't mind conflict in RP, hope I didn't come off that way!
While I'm not sorry that you left WoW and eventually found your way here, I am sorry that this happened and it sounds like a pretty lousy way to "enjoy" free time in a game and I certainly don't blame either of you for being upset about it.
I don't think there is anything in the lore to suggest that deviating from the nuhn system to an extent that you are comfortable with would be some great sin. Â The "cultural norms" that S-E has provided are more like guidelines and in many instances can probably be regarded as traditional. Â I think a lot of characters are more contemporary and Eorzea - being the melting pot it is - is a much more open-minded place and variations on these older ways of thinking are probably "the new normal" in a sense. Â And I think your character may still be mysterious and exotic as you make her in spite of your/her preferences for handling that particular element of her story. Â Your choices (and your husband's) are yours and no one should be able to take away from that, or from your enjoyment of the game or the RP experience.
Thanks again!