I would agree with most that is said and have been through a few and probably even hurt people. It is not as simple as attacker victim as often these things are done with the best intentions.
Have the ooc talk, make sure that you both understand what you want from the RP. Also what you don't want.
I would like more of...
I would like less of...
I would also like to try...
IC is not the place to resolve things. But be aware that we are attached to our characters and get upset on their behalf.
Even with ooc agreement things change. There is no easy answer but be prepared to move on and deal with fall out. The majority of RP relationships fail so you know this will happen no matter how much you are enjoying the moment.
So have the discussion if it does not resolve it move on.
Have the ooc talk, make sure that you both understand what you want from the RP. Also what you don't want.
I would like more of...
I would like less of...
I would also like to try...
IC is not the place to resolve things. But be aware that we are attached to our characters and get upset on their behalf.
Even with ooc agreement things change. There is no easy answer but be prepared to move on and deal with fall out. The majority of RP relationships fail so you know this will happen no matter how much you are enjoying the moment.
So have the discussion if it does not resolve it move on.
Char:Â [Nebula Stardancer] Â FC: [East Eerie Trading Co]
Link Shells: [Hugs & Cakes] Â [Witches' Wyrd Web]